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Data Sheet: Mumbai, India
By a man named Dev: an expat living in the city.


Mumbai, India


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Brief Overview of the City

Mumbai, as it's often been said, is a city of contrasts. You can have a five star luxury hotel with a beautiful roof top bar exist with a bunch of slums opposite it. The poverty is hard hitting at first- it seems to be everywhere. You get used to it. Most people are usually so taken aback by the poverty that they fail to see the money all around them- Mumbai is a city with many, many rich people. There are spotless, international quality suburbs with beautiful old British era buildings, and not five minutes away you will find yourself in a run down ghetto area with cows relaxing on the side of the road- but as a city, it has a certain charm to it.

It's probably the best place to live in India. The alcohol can get pretty cheap. A pint of beer is around $3-4. As of recent times the nightlife has been evolving. There are LOTS of bars and a few good clubs and places to hang out. It's a fun place to visit, provided you know someone there. If you try to do your own research and make your way, you probably won't leave with a very good impression of the place. So it's a good idea to contact someone over the internet or a forum or something and ask for help.

The Women

There is no dirth of attractive women in Mumbai. The only issue is that the 'dating' scene in Mumbai is a little weird. When girls say they're dating someone, it usually means they have a steady boyfriend. If you want to have sex with somebody casually, you HAVE to specify. That said, casual sex happens a lot. 'One night' hook ups are common too. Girls in Mumbai aren't overly religious and you can definitely meet them at bars or clubs They love to get wasted. Getting with a foreigner earns huge bragging rights, so if you're not Indian, chances are every girl in the club or bar has already checked you out.

The problem in India is that the quality of women is great but the quality of men is dismal- use this to your advantage. The classes in India are very very distinct from each other. Girls from the lower class are usually the ones with strict curfews that never go out and drink or wear revealing clothes. They are also often illiterate and it is usually them you see wearing traditional Indian clothes as everyday wear. The middle and upper class girls however are all well educated, liberal and westernized. They wear the shortest, most revealing clothes and are all very attractive and up for fun. Clubs and Bars are crowded with these women.

Game

As for approaching girls, the will react positively as long as you are reasonably attractive. There are way,way too many unattractive, rich indian men already waving cash in their faces so money alone won't help you land a girl. Although the women are still pretty materialistic, so it will help but it won't stand alone. Around 20-30% of the population above the age of 18 is 'saving themselves for marriage', so that leaves a large number of women who may or may not be virgins but are willing to have sex with you and are not particularly hard to find.

Nightlife Recommendations

The nightlife in Mumbai is buzzing! Most bars and clubs shut down by 1, and some places have permissions to stay open til 3 or 4, but the real action happens at after parties. Drugs and hooking up included. To get invited to these, you're going to have to befriend people that seem like they're the kind of folks that want to party all night. Do this, and they're more than happy to invite you to whoever's house they're planning to head to once the club shut's down.

Blue Frog
A really chill club that regularly has great live music and caters to the more alternative/hipster crowd of Mumbai (and believe me that crowd is large). It's a great place to meet and approach women. You will also find a lot of expats or travellers like yourself here, since it's a club with international acclaim.

Tryst Club:

If you are aged 16 to 23-ish, Tryst is a good nightclub to meet people. Although the legal age for drinking and going to clubs in 21 or 25 in some cases, fake ID's are easy to come by and if you act confident and look old enough, you can easily talk your way in.

Other Clubs:

Other good clubs are Royalty and Alibii. However you need to know people to get onto the guestlist for most clubs and they usually flat out deny stags entry. There's also The Den that isn't so strict and has good stuff usually. D'Bell and White Owl are in the same area and are nice places to hang out, although White Owl isn't so great to meet people at.

The Bar Scene

As for bars, there are plenty. Jugheads offers great deals on beer but you can't really approach people at this place. Soda and Amigo's are also good bars with cheap prices. Elbo Room is a great bar to meet people at. It was advertised as Mumbai's first 'Singles' bar. Other bars that have a good atmosphere and friendly people that are approachable are Bonobo and the Olive bar and kitchen. Ghetto is a MUST visit pub in South Bombay. It's a place i've never been to a not left with new friends. If you want to go to a more fancy, upmarket bar, try The Dome. It offers one of the best views of the city and is pretty damn expensive, about $11 for a beer, but it's beautiful.

Day Game

Day game in India is non existent, it's very hard to meet girls in the day. You have to be incredibly good looking to walk up to a girl at a coffee shop or on the street and be able to get her number. Also, please don't do this if she's with her parents.
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Getting Weed

The weed and hash scene is pretty nice in India. Local people are fairly tolerant of it and will at most give you a few dirty looks, so it's safe to smoke in public PROVIDED there aren't any cops around. Even if you do get caught by cops, the corruption levels are pretty large so you can get away with a 'fine'. If you are visibly a tourist, you WILL get ripped off. If you're desperate for some stash, ask a rickshaw or taxi driver where you can score some Ganja and they'll be happy to direct you- but be warned, you will probably get charged exorbitant rates for very average/low quality weed or hash. The weed is usually dry and brownish and often mixed with opium. The hash is pretty nice though. To have access to really good weed, you need to know somebody in Bombay. But poor quality weed is available freely everywhere. Just ask the cab driver. Be careful that you're not set up though, an Indian Jail is really NOT somewhere you want to be. You can smoke in your hotel room though, and there are certain places that are tolerant of smoking such as Candie's on Pali Hill (a restaurant).

Personal Experience

I've been living here for a few years now and although I hated it at first, I've come to love it. It's evolving and growing and it's really not a bad place to be.

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If you're white go to India. At least that's what interracial dating sites have reflected. The whole bollyowood and westernization really is reflected in their taste for men. "The brighter, the better!", is probably the motto when it comes to them. Don't believe me? Go to any interracial dating website and specify your search for Indian women. Don't say I didn't warn you Smile
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So weird. I've always heard it's very hard to get an Indian girl, because of family, religion and stuff like 'what would the neighbours think' etc ... I suppose the dating scene in Mumbai is pretty different than the rest of India?
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This is the first legit usable info I have come across. I met a Persian girl in Bali who said its also quite easy for white people to get work in the movie/advertisement type business and get paid a pretty reasonable amount.
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I would love to hear more about that!
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Nescio, you're white?
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Yes, why?
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(04-12-2014, 06:28 AM)nescio Wrote: Yes, why?

I see that you've travelled to my motherland, Ethiopian and seem to love it Smile I just wanted to get some intel on how they view westerners now. Are they more westernized or still conservative. I saw somewhere you dated an Eritrean stripper so I'm guessing they treat you well lol. I haven't been there in over 5 years so I wanted to see what it was like in Addis.
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Girls are very easy to approach and they stay correct and don't get slutty. I spent one day with a girl and she even paid my coffee and proposed to pay half of the dinner. I didn't have sex with her, she was conservative christian, so I guess it wouldn't have worked out or I would have needed more time.


Then I met a girl who called me herself in a bar, I ended up partying the whole night with her and her friend. I couldn't get into a bar 'cos I was wearing sport shoes, so I told them I was the son of the American ambassador, so they let me in. I wanted to bang her and she clearly was up for it, but she turned out to be a bitch. I insulted her and got angry and a guy needed to calm me down 'cos she wsa treatening me. She apparently is very highly connected to the government and shit. Didn't impress me and I didn''t stop and I went home.

I banged a very very very VERY hot girl in a really small Hammar town in the south. She had golden skin, gorgeous smile and perfect body. She was super cute, beginning of her twinties. She didn't speak any English, so we were talking using our hands and learning each other some words and it was very romantic and cute. We ended up having sex, but very conservatie: no blowjob, no doggy (I hear this is common).

In another city, forgot the name, near the blue Nile watefalls I just went to pick up a hooker, she looked like Cleopatra, really beautiful. No BJ, but doggy and normal position.

Back in Addis I got a hot escort arranged, I asked for the best in town and she was super expensive. So she came to my room and we started smoking weed and chatting up. We really got along and started kissing and making love. She told me I was a very good fuck and really liked me. Sex was out of this world, she did these crazy gymnastic stripper moves during sex which I didn't know they were possible. She told me 'I never thought you'd be this nice'. I only booked her for a few hours, but I wanted to see her more. She had to work in a strip club so she took me with her. She paid for the cab to her house (I got robbed of all my money in Addis, car chase etc ... it was my last money and she felt bad for me) and we were in her house, showing me family pictures. Then in the stripclub she didn't get into any of the invites from customers and just did her dancing. It was unbelievable, she was so strong. Crazy pole dancing, very very very professional. She paid my drinks and bought me a few lapdances and the rest of the night she was just giving me lapdances and touching my dick for 5 hours. Now and then we went into the car of her driver to smoke some ot. In the morning her sister came and we went on the streets to go home. I was super cold so both started touch me and giving me kisses, it was fucking hot. I asked if she wanted to join me to my hotel (it was already morning) but she said she'd prefer to sleep in her own bed. She brought me home and asked ma to pay my hotel and basically give me my money back. Two reasons: she really really liked me, we actually stayed in contact and told me she had a bit of a crush on me and felt bad I got robbed.

Similar thing happened to me in Vegas with a Thai hooker, she really liked me, I didn't have to pay and she spent three days in my room. It all sounds too good to be true, but I pretty much know how to talk to women and apparently I'm very good at shoring. I like being around escorts and strippers, they are most of the time amazing in bed. This girl gave great head and great sex, this in contrary to most conservative Ethiopians. It's in my top three best bangs ever. So I basically got my money back, free drinks and lapdances paid by an escort. I might haven't fucked 100 girls in my life, but I sure know how to get a very hot professional for free. One of these days I'll write about how I scored a lesbian. After that you'll all probably will call me a fraud Smile
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Dude!!!! This deserves a whole new thread!
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It brings me so many memories this post...
Did I say one of the most honest experiences I went through happened with "working girls" ?! Some of the most memorable time..Just remember, do not judge and treat women as a gentlemen and let them be your darling, enjoy together what is natural and sleep well !

(04-12-2014, 08:47 AM)nescio Wrote: Girls are very easy to approach and they stay correct and don't get slutty. I spent one day with a girl and she even paid my coffee and proposed to pay half of the dinner. I didn't have sex with her, she was conservative christian, so I guess it wouldn't have worked out or I would have needed more time.


Then I met a girl who called me herself in a bar, I ended up partying the whole night with her and her friend. I couldn't get into a bar 'cos I was wearing sport shoes, so I told them I was the son of the American ambassador, so they let me in. I wanted to bang her and she clearly was up for it, but she turned out to be a bitch. I insulted her and got angry and a guy needed to calm me down 'cos she wsa treatening me. She apparently is very highly connected to the government and shit. Didn't impress me and I didn''t stop and I went home.

I banged a very very very VERY hot girl in a really small Hammar town in the south. She had golden skin, gorgeous smile and perfect body. She was super cute, beginning of her twinties. She didn't speak any English, so we were talking using our hands and learning each other some words and it was very romantic and cute. We ended up having sex, but very conservatie: no blowjob, no doggy (I hear this is common).

In another city, forgot the name, near the blue Nile watefalls I just went to pick up a hooker, she looked like Cleopatra, really beautiful. No BJ, but doggy and normal position.

Back in Addis I got a hot escort arranged, I asked for the best in town and she was super expensive. So she came to my room and we started smoking weed and chatting up. We really got along and started kissing and making love. She told me I was a very good fuck and really liked me. Sex was out of this world, she did these crazy gymnastic stripper moves during sex which I didn't know they were possible. She told me 'I never thought you'd be this nice'. I only booked her for a few hours, but I wanted to see her more. She had to work in a strip club so she took me with her. She paid for the cab to her house (I got robbed of all my money in Addis, car chase etc ... it was my last money and she felt bad for me) and we were in her house, showing me family pictures. Then in the stripclub she didn't get into any of the invites from customers and just did her dancing. It was unbelievable, she was so strong. Crazy pole dancing, very very very professional. She paid my drinks and bought me a few lapdances and the rest of the night she was just giving me lapdances and touching my dick for 5 hours. Now and then we went into the car of her driver to smoke some ot. In the morning her sister came and we went on the streets to go home. I was super cold so both started touch me and giving me kisses, it was fucking hot. I asked if she wanted to join me to my hotel (it was already morning) but she said she'd prefer to sleep in her own bed. She brought me home and asked ma to pay my hotel and basically give me my money back. Two reasons: she really really liked me, we actually stayed in contact and told me she had a bit of a crush on me and felt bad I got robbed.

Similar thing happened to me in Vegas with a Thai hooker, she really liked me, I didn't have to pay and she spent three days in my room. It all sounds too good to be true, but I pretty much know how to talk to women and apparently I'm very good at shoring. I like being around escorts and strippers, they are most of the time amazing in bed. This girl gave great head and great sex, this in contrary to most conservative Ethiopians. It's in my top three best bangs ever. So I basically got my money back, free drinks and lapdances paid by an escort. I might haven't fucked 100 girls in my life, but I sure know how to get a very hot professional for free. One of these days I'll write about how I scored a lesbian. After that you'll all probably will call me a fraud Smile

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I think this video sheds some light ....what a great and unexplored place India ! (1.04min) gets special.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7a1zU0yxk6c

Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D9Ui2deAKr8

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U_N19I45z68
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welcome lost souls ?!

you do not need to go far
I am just here ?

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I was in Mumbai for five months, a few years back. I'm sure it's changed a lot in those few years, but from what I remember, the night life was a disappointment.

Entry to a nightclub cost something like $35, with the entry ticket, you'd get coupons for drinks, but still, at this prices, nightclubs are only for the elite class.

Any good club required you to bring a girl with you (or no entry). Places without this stag rule were 97% male. Clubs closed early, like around 1:30 am.

I know it's possible to have success in India, I eventually had some. I know SNL is possible. But if you compare India to other places in the world, its nightlife is very, very disappointing. I was working in India but would take trips to nearby countries where I'd have a much better time.
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Can one of the mods (are there any?) split the thread?
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