(08-22-2015, 03:32 AM)nomadphilippines Wrote: lol @ the cockblocking friends
last week (in asia) i went to hand a cute girl my number on the street...... the street is the worst place to do it cuz girls are always a bit scared there..... but it was daytime, there were 3 of them, and i am not a threatening person and kindly approach women all the time
as i walked up to the three college aged girls and politely said 'hello i saw yo......' the first girl in the group (not the one i was trying to give my number to) takes off in a dead sprint!
they all 3 locked arms as they walked so she started pulling the others, the 2nd (still not the one I wanted) started running with her pulling the third!
The third is looking back at me and has some sort of interest (or at least curiousity) but is being pulled hard by her two friends.. i contemplate following since she is hard core staring at me, but realize it was far to awkward and bailed
sorry your 2 friends cockblocking one being receptive comment reminded me of that
i truly believe that 99% of the guys living in the US are just wasting there lives..... if they only knew (and had the balls) it could be so much better
I blew up on platonic girlfriend once because of this, she was constantly bitching to me about being single and no good men and I finally went off on a rant about these man hating girlfriends she goes out with.
Also a side story, I was out with a friend/client a weekend ago who's networth is in the high 8 digits. He is in his late 30's looks early 30's or late 20's, takes very good care of himself and is tall. Anyway we were at this mid grade lounge having drinks and both of us were being pretty social and having causal random conversations with girls and guys as well. He saw these two girls off the corner of the bar both were I'd say 7's one maybe an 8 but I had a few drinks in me both skinny but still nothing to write home about.
When one went to the bathroom he approached the said 8 and was running some pretty good game, had her laughing ect... her friend comes back and he still is holding the convo pretty well with both but I see the friend starting to get a solid resting bitch face so I decide to go in and help him by attempting to isolate the friend in a convo and I was doing well at that until he decided to attempt to isolate her then the friend took her focus off of our convo and proceeded to cockblock. Trying to recover fast he looks at me and say's we need to go meet so and so and attempts to get his targets number in which the friend starts speaking for her saying she does not give her number out to strangers so we basically said fuck it and went and talked to some other people.
Later that night I was having a cig outside and the cockblock friend is out having one herself with her friend talking on the phone and I decided to rub in her face who she just cockblocked her friend from and she pretended not to care. After I went in no more than 15 minutes later the two girls approach us and I had told my friend already what I told her in which he laughed.
When they came up I look at my friend and said we need to go to xyz bar and the two girls started engaging us. I looked at the cockblocking friend and said sorry we need need to meet with some other people take it easy. She then tried to invite her and her friend to join us and I said maybe some other time see you later. Just the look on their faces was enough to make my whole night. I hope her friend fucking scolded her for screwing up her potential millionaire hookup. Man that felt so good. No good men my ass, this guy is not a player and this girl missed out big time on a good prospect because of her girlfriends attention whoring and jealousy. I'm convinced good women should drop having any girlfriend who is not self assured and happy I frankly don't get why women befriend girls that do nothing but hold them back.
Back in my monogamist day's I had so many miserable girlfriends bff's do everything in their power to ruin a good stable developing relationship it literally drove me to refuse to be with one women at least in America. Then I get to listen to them complain about being single and their are no good men. I think more should be more research on the type of company many women choose to keep. If I have a male friend constantly cockblocking me and being a miserable sob I stop hanging out with him because he is bringing me down like many men I know do. I don't understand why women don't see this.
My theory is a majority of women worldwide don't actually want to have multiple partners, at least in my experience and opinion. I think it's the company they keep that drives them into either scuttling a relationship/partners for the next one out of being made to feel guilty for being happy or getting manipulated by jealous single friends or miserable undesirable friends into thinking their relationship is complete shit at the least little hang up where they go seek girlfriend "advice" which is usually with a BFF that has no life and no prospects and is an unhappy armchair therapist.
I once was dating this beautiful girl where we had literally no real fights or arguments, sex multiple times a day, took trips together met families ect... things were going great for a year until we started talking about moving in together. Next thing I know her fat miserable BFF started calling and texting her almost every 3 - 4 hours sometimes in tears about how they never spend time together and her relationship with her then boyfriend is going to shit (they saw each other every two days and sometimes everyday). I actually being a decent person pushed her along to go help her friend who could do nothing on her own. Quickly over a period of a few weeks we were seeing each other less and less and the excuses were her friends issues. Fast forward two weeks later she tells me instead of us going home to see her family in CA for a week she was spending Christmas with her BFF because she needed her. I actually got pretty pissed at this because we had already purchased tickets and she told her friend I was pissed which led to her friend working her down and making her feel like shit. Fast forward a couple more weeks of the friend starting fights between them and crying and having more drama than all the soap operas combined my girlfriend announces to me she does not think it's a good time to move in together and needs space to help her stupid fat "adult" friend. I just dumped her and moved on, in which she chased for a while blaming her friends issues. I stood my ground and said no thanks you're friend needs you. That was my last LTR and the one that made me stop getting exclusive with girls.