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Girlfriend Won't Agree to Open Relationship
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Girlfriend Won't Agree to Open Relationship
So While I was in the Philippines nailing a different girl every day, not looking for anything serious, something happened that I didn't expect. I met a really good girl, fell for her and we got in a relationship. 

The problem is that I don't have a history of being faithful in relationships, and after my last relationship, which was an open relationship, I decided that all future relationships will have to be open as well. I hate keeping secrets in a relationship, and It was so nice never having to lie about anything. 

My current girl won't agree to an open relationship under any circumstances. I knew this going in, but she's just such a good girl I didn't want to let her go. I love everything about her, but my thirst for sexual variety just won't go away.  She's the type of girl I would want to settle down with, but I know I'm always going to have a strong desire to sleep with different women, and I don't want to end up like Tiger. That would crush her. 

I know the logical thing is to leave her and find someone who has everything I need in a woman (including wanting an open relationship), but that's easier said than done, and I feel I'm going to look back at her as the one that got away. Any advice would be appreciated.
06-01-2016, 05:50 PM
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Finding a quality female that would agree to an open relationship is like finding a needle in the haystack.

Would you agree to be with a woman knowing she is getting dicked down by other dudes?!?

I don't even like thinking about my random once or twice every 2 week fuck buddies fucking all kinds of other dudes.
06-01-2016, 11:51 PM
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Dash please stop calling girls "females" it makes you sound like some autist neckbeard and we all know you are better than that
06-02-2016, 12:35 AM
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females, girls, women, etc. all the same to me.

i've never been a stickler for words.
06-02-2016, 01:02 AM
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(06-02-2016, 12:35 AM)Alex Wrote: Dash please stop calling girls "females" it makes you sound like some autist neckbeard and we all know you are better than that


You do not speak for all of us!
06-02-2016, 01:06 AM
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You're being a bit dramatic. You are not married and i doubt you have dated this girl for very long. Just keep doing what you are doing and enjoy life.
06-02-2016, 01:23 AM
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Seriously, if she's not good enough to make you want to be monogamous and there's no way she'll be in a non-monogamous relationship then you should follow Shaked's advice and just move on. There's no point in being duplicitous or compromising your own wants and desires.
06-02-2016, 01:29 AM
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I honestly dont know how any guy who is not in love with a girl or believes they have no real future can be faithful.
06-02-2016, 03:01 AM
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(06-01-2016, 11:51 PM)Dash Global Wrote: Would you agree to be with a woman knowing she is getting dicked down by other dudes?!?

Yeah, I would. The whole point of an open relationship is that it's not one-sided.
06-02-2016, 03:25 AM
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I wish I could be ok with that. It would cause me less stress.

However, the idea that a girl I am with is getting dicked down on the regular by other dudes is offsetting.

I have even declined inviting good looking chicks over because I knew for a fact they went out with another guy the previous night.
06-02-2016, 03:51 AM
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^How much time must pass between dickings for you to be cool with it, Dash? Haha.
06-02-2016, 04:07 AM
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Haha

3 - 4 days minimum

preferably a week
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06-02-2016, 04:09 AM
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Just read your question fully, didnt see the word "cool" with it.

For a girl I am seeing regularly, I would never be cool with her fucking other guys. I would prefer her only to fuck me. However, I will still fuck, even if I am not fully "cool" with a situation.

It's like a used product. I prefer new, fresh, clean, and exclusive things etc.

Again, that is just preference. In the perfect world.
06-02-2016, 04:22 AM
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A dilemma as old as time. In the end, you just have to be true to your authentic self. Otherwise you'll end up resenting her and it will poison the relationship.

Alternatively, download the NQ Vault app (hides texts and stuff from certain numbers) and get really good at cheating. lol
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I'm with Dash on this one. I don't know what's wrong with all you guys that want to target only incorrigible ho bags, or worse, turn a solid chick that you see regularly into one. What is it about sucking out other dudes' cum that fucked her 12 hours before from her pussy that you like so much? That's just gross. LOL

It might be "unfair", but wanting your girl to go around fucking other dudes is fucked up. Some girls might cheat occasionally anyway, but I'm certainly not going to make a point of telling her to go out and do it or that I'm down with it. LOL. Girls just don't operate that way. It's biology. Except for the occasional drunk fling, they can't separate love from sex. A girl that is fucking a guy regularly is going to fall in love with him and she will want monogamy, no matter how casual she thought she could be at the start.

Dafuq.
06-02-2016, 06:06 PM
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