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Tourist vs Local places
Hello guys,

I'm back from my night in Göteborg and talking with a bartender mixed with my own experience I got this:

There are basically two regions to go out: the one where the locals go and the one where the tourists go. I went to both. The barman said that people are more real in the local site. I agree, that's my experience and it's way more enriching on a personal level than the time I spent in the "touristy" area.

The main difference is that people play way more games in the touristy area and the importance of status and money is much more important.

That being said, I'm curious about your own experience regarding the easiness of getting laid, since I'm focussed on that now. 

I don't want to go with any skanky woman from the touristy area and at the same time my type of woman (tattoos and piercings, sexual woman) are hanging out over there. I've never seen so many tongue piercings in my life than in Göteborg. 

Now, talking on an emotional/soul level: I realized that many of the women with tattoos and piercings often have emotional and/or mental issues. I'm not judging I'm talking about my own experience. So I'm trying to understand how I can get women that I'm attracted to physically while not going for the so-called "damaged" women, I prefer the term: "in suffering". 

What's your experience? 

There are two dimensions: 

- Physical vs emotional experience. Meaning: would you go for the type of women you like even if you feel like shit/used after that? (narcisstic women for instance)
- Do you think that to get laid it's better to go to the touristy area or the local area, in general?

All in all, what is your attitude?
(This post was last modified: 09-22-2016, 05:11 PM by John Doe.)
09-22-2016, 10:06 AM
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You are seriously over thinking things.

First, tourist areas vs local areas is just not likely to be an issue in Scandanavia for some reason I'm picturing you with an Arabic appearance which may change things as a whole but also won't make difference where you go.

Second, concerning yourself about attracting damaged women? Seriously are you looking for a wife and just how damaged do you think these women are?

Third, what's your notch count?

Your a male your attracted to beautiful women it's very simple if you fuck one regardless of her character (seriously wtf kind of thing is this to be concerned with when your aim is getting laid that night ,lay off RVF) you will feel good for several days after if your not a faggot.
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True. I do overthink this. I had recent experiences where I got burned by a manipulative girlfriend, so I'm overly cautious now. My notch count is 16-17. I know that I'm still a beginner in this stuff, hence my questions can sometimes seem strange. It's true, it all boils down to attraction. 

Yes, I do have limiting beliefs to get rid of, and sometimes I don't see the stupidity of them, until I write it down and get a response on it. Thanks.
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Is it possible to feel used after sex?
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I know I did, at least I felt like shit. Over the past year, I was in relationship with 4 girls and I chose them badly. So they were in desperate need of commitment while I just wanted to bang them. Also, they were all crazy in their own way and I did not see it properly. I did not manage the situation well and these girls, one by one, got their revenge on me on an emotional level. 

Yesterday, I danced with a sexy girl but she was out of her mind, completely crazy. Hence my post. Now I don't do crazy anymore, even if she's hot. Crazy is not good for me.

I would say some girls feel so bad about themselves that I can kind of absorb it during sex.

I broke up with all of them. I'm starting over my social life, my sex life and my professional life. It's a new beginning. So now I do my best to make better choices: saner women, trustworthy friends, easy-going and supportive colleagues.

Just found this article, this is what I mean: 


Quote:reckless party girls, duplicitous narcissists, covetous gold diggers, bitter vampires, maniacal nutty girls, and BPD babes
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Hum hum, I did it again. Long story short I went to this crazy chick's place after her booty call at 4am and I ended up going back to mine: total = 60 euros of taxi, no fuck. Hahaha, but nice adventure and experience. Her story was completely crazy: mean roommate, keys lost. She ended up calling me after I was at my place to come. Total nonsense from A to Z.

No crazy chick policy enforced (yet?)
09-23-2016, 12:37 PM
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60 euros for taxi... thanks for continuing to remind me to stay the F out of europe :p
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(09-23-2016, 12:40 AM)Hicks Wrote: Is it possible to feel used after sex?

i did once, of course i didnt mind, but i met this girl at the mall, she made me come to her place that night (wouldnt come to mine no matter what, only 2nd time ive been to a girls place in asia) and when i walked in the door she pulled her dress up as she sat on the bed, i was lolbad and tried to make small talk which she wanted nothing of..... we bang, afterwards i say i am going to shower she is like do you have too i just go into the bathroom cuz fuck her.... i come out knowing i am about to leave but at least try to say bye, ask her how much her apartment is and she says she will tell me later, never looks at me just stares at her phone im like uhhh ok bye

it was awesome cuz she had some great ass and big tits plus her boyfriend from singapore called halfway through.... but i did feel used and never heard from her again
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LOL. He says it like a girl using you for sex is a bad thing. I've had it happen a few times. Girl comes over, isn't interested in anything, no tv, no talk, etc. and when that happens you know she just wants to bang. But it's always a bit of a surprise when they immediately after throw their clothes on and say they got to leave. Even though it's the perfect situation that most guys dream of, I'm always a bit thrown off by it because most want to stick around until you physically kick them out.
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I can answer to my own question now: it depends. The local place is usually where the hipster are. In Copenhagen there are basically 3 neighborhoods: central (mix of students, expats, tourists, business, locals, etc.), multicultural and hipster/local.

So I would say what matters is more to choose a spot where the clubs and bars you seem to like are. I use facebook and the pictures/comments also I use yelp and I ask the local women with whom I get along and am attracted to. 

Personnally, I don't know yet which one I prefer. Since I'm looking for local, I'm mostly avoiding multicultural, despite I'm sure I would fit. I need more experience staying in the center vs staying in the hipster neighborhood. 

In the future, I'll do way more online research before travelling. That being said, some good spots you can only discover by being there.
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wait, you plan to do MORE research next time? how many threads hsould we expect? :p
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At least it passes the time..
10-02-2016, 09:11 AM
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